Most of the time in my private English classes I would notice students' motivations very low, and when probed their answers mostly translated to something like this, 'What is the point learning all this grammar, I will never be able to be able to speak the way native English language speakers do’.
Are you spending hours in the classroom trying to grasp the grammar techniques? trying to speak as the teacher? or copy the students who are making so much progress? but here you are struggling, feeling frustrated wondering why you find it so difficult, but others find it easy.
Then let me break the news to you, it's not that they are more intelligent, smarter, hardworking, and resolute than you are. They have tweaked their mindset. They have programmed themselves to achieve and do well. They have overcome barriers that have shackled them down. They have fought against the enemy of self and unleashed the lion/lioness in them.
Seeing my students in this painstaking way, I decided I was going to do something about it! I thought about what I needed to do to help my struggling students. so, I could really help them break free from these limitations. I immediately set to work to help them overcome their mindset issues. I created a methodology that was going to help my students break free from their victimhood if they believed and trusted me with helping them navigate through their challenges, I would be able to help them unleash the lion/lioness in them.
So, before embarking on any learning I would prepare my students to WIN. I wove this methodology of practice and psychology into my teaching astoundingly the results were hugely different out of the twenty students in each class, only one or two failed their exams.
Unfortunately, mindset issues for most can be quite difficult as a lot of factors contribute to our abilities to succeed are blocked, and mostly these issues are from our childhood, It requires willpower and a specialist therapist to help you overcome these issues, and whilst I did my very best to help my groups but these few students needed a little longer than the others and this is completely okay and should be okay. If you desire you are going to have a 6pack and hit the gym only twice a week because that’s all you can afford to do because you have to work, your counter who goes to the gym every day and is a lot younger than you but doesn’t have the responsibilities as you do then the journey is very difficult and different, so in this case the timing has to be different. Hope you are getting the gist of my message.
So here is the point, if you really want to achieve anything in life then everything is possible. you just need to prepare first, set great intentions, listen to the tutor, implement the knowledge, and practice the grammar and speaking exercises. And have the correct attitude and the rest is 'voila'.
It is so pleasing to see people who make leaps of progress by taking heaps of action. And yes, it is especially important to have a cheerleader, so look for a teacher who is not only going to teach you techniques and grammar but who also is going to have your personal stake.
If you want to learn English as a foreign language with a private tutor in an easy, fun way then 'hit me up.’
You'll soon be speaking like a 'pro native'. I can do formal and informal. Both are fun.